On Monday I posted an article from The New York Times, written by Caryn James, which has gotten my gmail account buzzing with angry Angelina Jolie fans. First of all, I would like to apologize to any of Angelina’s fans, and my readers that I upset by posting the article. That beings said, I have a rebuttal.
La Gossip The internet, gossip rags and tabloids have been hopping with anti-Angie news lately. Angelina has recently been quoted, misquoted, blamed, called a witch, a *itch, a ho and a husband stealer (okay, so those aren’t new), haughty, self-important and fake… that’s just to name a few.
In the beginning Angelina Jolie fans fell in love with a quirky girl who wasn’t afraid to go out into the world and make a bumbling fool of herself. She kissed her brother (With Tongue!), jumped in a pool dressed to the 9’s, got married in a t-shirt with her own blood spelling her husbands name, wore another husbands blood around her neck for years, openly spoke about enjoying knives in her bed-play, wanted to be a funeral director and bragged about sitting in the bathtub with her pet rat Harry who she thought was insane (the rat, she thought the rat was insane)… this is just to name a few of the sometimes outlandish but always unique things that Angelina did.
Welcome Maddox I don’t think there is anyone that sees the pictures of Angelina with her children and hears her talk about them that doesn’t believe that she’s a good mom, and that she really truly loves her children. All of them. In including Shiloh “the blob”. Adopting Maddox changed Angelina. She became quiet and subdued. No longer was the she quirky girl that everyone enjoyed watching with anticipation to see what kind of crazy thing she would do next. She settled down. The wildest things in her life after adopting Maddox were Maddox’s hair and her comments that she didn’t have a boyfriend but that she did have sex with certain unnamed people (she may have been specific to men, but I can’t really remember). She started The Maddox Jolie Project and became an ambassador for the United Nations. After a few years she looked into adopting another child.
Zahara Along the path to adopting Zahara, she met Brad Pitt. Brad may or may not have been married to Jennifer Aniston when their relationship started (I choose to believe that they were no longer together, plenty of others think differently), regardless, the paparazzi and tabloids saw a great chance for increased revenue and spun the story in a “husband-stealer” direction as much as possible. ‘Spinning’ is a certain quality that the paparazzi and tabloids seem to have an abundance of.
This was the time that everyone saw the greatest transformation in Angelina. All of a sudden she was in fewer movies, her work with the United Nations intensified, she started wearing white all the time, a pretty big change from her normal black.
Pregnancy Then she was pregnant, and mostly in hiding (really, who can blame someone for hiding from the lime-light when they’re pregnant and feeling fat and awkward?). Shiloh was born. And that is one BEAUTIFUL baby. Since the birth of Shiloh, Angelina seems (to me) sullen, tired, bedraggled, stressed and worried. Back in the day you would see pictures of her out and about and smiling - even if it was a menacing smile. Now her smile (when not in the direction of a child or two) seems tired and strained and maybe just a little sad.
Bad Press That sadness and strain has led to a lot of bad press for Angelina lately. Angelina’s “attack” on Madonna’s adoption of baby David from Malawi, that ended up being a quote spun to make someone’s article more interesting. The same thing with her comment about Shiloh being a “blob?, it was actually something that the reported came up with. Ryan Seacrest? He’s an idiot (sorry). He received a mundane answer to a mundane and very stupid serious of questions. His whining needs to stop (as does his career on television, but again my opinion). She may or may not have been snotty with the people at St. Johns - And who cares? She’s the one that has to go out in public in the dress, she should at not least hate it! The same goes for her dealings with Annie Liebowitz. She was blamed for forcing her way through a crowd at the premier of God Grew Tired of Us, but she always has body guards around her, how would she have gotten through first? Not to mention, isn’t this a bit petty? Would it be okay if we all found out she had a child at home with the stomach flu (just throwing that out for an example, I don’t know where she was going to).
Ms. James and the NY Post I think what Ms. James was trying to say (again, just my opinion) is what happened to that quirky girl that would just have fun? She didn’t give a care if there were cameras in front of her, she was going to do what she wanted to do when she wanted to do it and be damned to the world if you didn’t like it. Did that girl grow up that fast? Is there no sign of her anymore? Maybe Angelina is forgetting who she is in her efforts to help everyone around her, or maybe the teen and 20-something Angelina was all just angst that had to be released before she could grow up. Whatever happened to that girl/young-woman, only she knows, but this new Angelina just isn’t the same person from Hackers and Gia.
My personal opinion is this She grew up in the limelight as the daughter of celebrities. She was beautiful and outgoing and just a little crazy, and that was at 16 years old. Now, she is a mom first-and-foremost. She’s a mom that jets around the country helping everyone but herself. Find me a mother of 1 small child that isn’t tired. Then find me a mother of 3 children 5 and under that can go to 6 different countries in 3 weeks, visiting the poor, homeless and sorrowful that still has energy at the end of the day. A mom that doesn’t have some form of postpartum, that isn’t suffering from malnutrition and sleep deprivation. Then have camera’s follow her around to do any and everything, yelling questions, snapping footage, trying to egg her on. Add in a few fans that probably scare her just a little when they yell that they’re obsessed with her and can’t get enough of her and can she please sign their babies heads? That mom doesn’t exist. Angelina’s trying to do good by herself, her children, her boyfriend and the world, and that’s an extremely noble thing, however, perhaps what she needs to do is take an evening, lock herself in the bathroom with a Janet Evanovich novel and a hot bubble bath, follow that up with a few days of shopping for herself, and some beach time with some good friends. Perhaps her biggest problem right now is thinking so much about everyone else, and expending so much on them, that there isn’t anything left for herself at the end of the day.











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